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Mahr Calculator

A simple, free way for American Muslim couples to estimate a fair mahr in US dollars. Choose a method, split it into prompt and deferred, and use the result to start an honest conversation before your nikah.

Suggested total mahr

$5,000

Paid now (muqaddam)

$2,000

Deferred (mu'akhar)

$3,000

This is a guide to help your conversation, not a ruling. Mahr is agreed between the couple and can be any amount the bride accepts. When in doubt, ask your imam.

How mahr works

Mahr is a gift the groom gives to the bride as part of the marriage contract. It is her right and her property, not a payment to her family. It can be money, gold, property, or anything of value the bride agrees to. There is no fixed amount in Islam. What matters is that it reflects the groom's means and that the bride is genuinely content with it.

Three ways to arrive at a number

  • Enter an amount if you already have a figure in mind and just want to split it.
  • Based on incomeuses a share of the groom's yearly earnings as a rough guide.
  • Silver standarduses Mahr Fatimi, the mahr associated with the Prophet's ﷺ family, converted to today's silver price in USD.

Prompt and deferred mahr

Many couples split the mahr into two parts. The prompt portion (muqaddam) is paid at the nikah. The deferred portion (mu'akhar) is a debt the husband owes the wife, usually payable on request or in the event of divorce or death. The slider in the calculator lets you set that balance.

Mahr in the US

In the US, how courts treat a mahr depends on the state and on how the agreement is written. Some courts have enforced a written mahr as a contract and others have not, so if you want your mahr to hold up legally, write it down clearly in your nikah contract and consider speaking with a family lawyer in your state. This tool is general information, not legal or religious advice.

Frequently asked questions

What is mahr?
Mahr is a mandatory gift the groom gives to the bride as part of the Islamic marriage contract (nikah). It becomes the bride's property alone, to keep or use as she wishes. It is a right of the wife, not a fee paid to her family.
Is mahr required in Islam?
Yes. Mahr is obligatory in a valid nikah. There is no fixed amount, but the marriage contract is not complete without a mahr being agreed upon.
How much mahr should I give?
There is no set figure in Islam. It should reflect the groom's means and be something the bride is content with. Many couples land somewhere between a symbolic amount and a few months of income. Our calculator gives you a starting point for the conversation.
What is the difference between prompt and deferred mahr?
Prompt mahr (muqaddam) is paid at the time of the nikah. Deferred mahr (mu'akhar) is owed later, typically payable on demand or in the event of divorce or the husband's death. Couples often split the total between the two.
Is mahr the same as a dowry?
No. A dowry, in the traditional sense, is given by the bride's family to the groom. Mahr is the opposite: it is given by the groom to the bride, and it belongs to her.
Is mahr legally enforceable in the US?
It depends on the state and on how the agreement was written. Some US courts have enforced a written mahr as a contract and others have declined to, so if enforceability matters to you, put it in writing clearly and speak with a family lawyer in your state.
When is mahr paid?
The prompt portion is due at the nikah. The deferred portion is a debt the husband owes the wife and remains payable until it is settled.

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This calculator provides general information only and is not legal, financial, or religious advice. Mahr is agreed between the couple; consult your imam and, where relevant, a qualified professional.